Sometimes we have to wonder why there is so much anger displayed these days. There seems to be a shortage of patience and an abundance of irritation. We meet it on the highways, on lines and in public places. Anger is a strong feeling of displeasure with a desire to strike back at the perceived cause, while patience enables one to endure difficulty, provocation, or annoyance calmly. Patience is about waiting, tolerating, and forgiving. It gives others their own space and time. Patient people are not easily provoked. “Patience is not passive; on the contrary, it is active; it is concentrated strength.” Anger is sometimes justified but it is never an excuse for cruelty. Practice can enable one to turn anger into a patient search for viable solutions.
May the God of patience and comfort grant us to be like-minded toward one another, according to Christ Jesus
What drives me to anger? Why? Is it worth it? How can I work through it patiently?
Take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, for one’s anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.
Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Do not lose
courage in considering your own imperfections, but instantly set about remedying
them – every day begin the task anew.
Saint Francis De Sales
Let nothing disturb thee;
Let nothing dismay thee;
All things pass;
God never changes.
Patience attains all that it strives for.
God never changes
St. Teresa of Avila
The practice of patience toward one another, the overlooking of one another’s defects, and the bearing of one another’s burdens is the most elementary condition of all human and social activity in the family, in the professions, and in society.
Lawrence G. Lovasik
If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size?
Sydney J. Harri
Anybody can become angry – that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way – that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy.
Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Speak when you are angry – and you’ll make the best speech you’ll ever regret.
Laurence J. Peter
When a man points a finger at someone else, he should remember that four of his fingers are pointing at himself.
Patience is not simply the ability to wait – it’s how we behave while we’re waiting.
Have patience. All things are difficult before they become easy.
The key to everything is patience. You get the chicken by hatching the egg, not by smashing it
Arnold H. Glasow
A waiting person is a patient person. The word patience means the willingness to stay where we are and live the situation out to the full in the belief that something hidden there will manifest itself to us.
Henri J.M. Nouwen