Reflection
Thanksgiving has passed and we are being seduced by sales and ads proclaiming the perfect Christmas gifts for everyone. In our country gift-giving has become big business. Frustrated by crowds, traffic and commercialism, we can be tempted at this time of year to opt out of gift giving altogether. Yet, giving gifts is an important part of human interaction helping to define relationships and strengthen bonds with family and friends. Choosing gifts and giving to others reinforces our feelings for them and makes us feel connected and caring. A gift is meant to be free and it can refer to anything that makes the other happier or less sad. The actual definition of a gift is the transfer of something without the expectation of payment. The best effect of gift giving may be on ourselves. It makes us happy to see those we love happy.
Prayer
Let the material gifts I give be an extension of my love not a replacement for it.
Actions
Consider to whom you will be giving gifts and why. Take pleasure in the selection and the wrapping of your gifts. Make them an extension of your affection and caring.
Suggested Reading
Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.
2 Corinthians 9:7
Like clouds and wind without rain is a man who boasts of a gift he does not give.
Proverbs 25:14
God never gives someone a gift they are not capable of receiving. If God gives us the gift of Christmas, it is because we all have the ability to understand and receive it.
Pope Francis
The excellence of a gift lies in its appropriateness rather than in its value.
Charles Dudley Warner
The greatest gift that you can give to others is the gift of unconditional love and acceptance.
Brian Tracy
A gift, with a kind countenance, is a double present.
Thomas Fuller
Every gift which is given, even though is be small, is in reality great, if it is given with affection.
Pindar
You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.
Kahlil Gibran
A hug is a great gift – one size fits all, and it’s easy to exchange.
Author Unknown
The best gifts come from the heart, not the store.
Sarah Dessen
There is generosity in giving, but gentleness in receiving.
Freya Stark
I have found that among its other benefits, giving liberates the soul of the giver.
Maya Angelou